Saturday, July 05, 2003
Choosing a boyfriend
How do you explain to someone why you only want a christian for a boyfriend? And not just a christian, but also one who would love God as you do, and love God more than he loves you. Daddy asked why sis and I were so narrow minded. Well, u can always convert him after you get attached you know? Explained to him how you can love both A and B, but if B and A are enemies, u feel really upset. The best situation is when both A and B love each other and you love them both!
I think a lot of christians just see the Lord as part of their lives, but if He is your everything, then I think it matters a lot how you choose your partner in life. I do believe that seek thee first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and He will add all unto you! It is He who will always provide the best man, and we both can serve Him together! =)
Now that we get older, parents begin to get worried and share that we need to find someone who has the drive, someone who will give us a good life. Wow, what happened to the notion of romance? Replaced by bread and butter issues. Balance is absolutely the key to life! Neither romance nor bread and butter issues should dominate, but need to think of a bigger perspective and live as a mature adult! Hehe, some thoughts from a girl turning 21!
How do you explain to someone why you only want a christian for a boyfriend? And not just a christian, but also one who would love God as you do, and love God more than he loves you. Daddy asked why sis and I were so narrow minded. Well, u can always convert him after you get attached you know? Explained to him how you can love both A and B, but if B and A are enemies, u feel really upset. The best situation is when both A and B love each other and you love them both!
I think a lot of christians just see the Lord as part of their lives, but if He is your everything, then I think it matters a lot how you choose your partner in life. I do believe that seek thee first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and He will add all unto you! It is He who will always provide the best man, and we both can serve Him together! =)
Now that we get older, parents begin to get worried and share that we need to find someone who has the drive, someone who will give us a good life. Wow, what happened to the notion of romance? Replaced by bread and butter issues. Balance is absolutely the key to life! Neither romance nor bread and butter issues should dominate, but need to think of a bigger perspective and live as a mature adult! Hehe, some thoughts from a girl turning 21!
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